Actually I don't think we should be judging any drummer. Instead, I prefer constructive comments that can help us improve. I also like to hear everyone's perspective about how a drummer should be performing.

I felt bad that I had ever critisized other drummers before, but I made it a point to stop. Every drummer has their way of playing and I believe.....that we all should be playing naturally. (That's why we are humans, not electronic programed drum tracks.)

I would not judge a drummer solely on the manner he handles his instrument during quiet sections of the song or between song/sets.  It is something that should always be considered and is a little extra icing on the cake. 

hm, i think that some drummers are not really drummers and they do just hit things, mainly because they have been playing for years and have had lessons and yet they still have no sence of feeling for the drums. however i dont judge drummers by what equipment they have or by how they say makes of equipment i myself call them all wrong ways. I think we should always be happy to help and encourage other drummers who may not be as good as us or do things which we dont do, and help them to become better drummers and they help us to do the same, for instance i talk my drum teacher how to do this weird bounce on the hi hat which he couldnt do, even though i wasnt as good as him he still realised that i could teach him somethings too.
thats what i think anyway

Red, red definately sounds better!

Yeah, that was wrong.