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Author Topic: Am I being too hard on myself???  (Read 1608 times)
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« Reply #20 on: April 27, 2005, 10:01 AM »

This thread takes me back to when I started playing guitar ~30years ago. Very similar situation.

When I started playing drums 5 years ago, I took that experience and learned from it with more realistic goals, excellent teachers, and (what probably helped me the most) a larger variety of styles. I'm not limiting myself to one style now and it's great!

Good luck! Keep us posted.  Grin
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« Reply #21 on: April 27, 2005, 10:14 AM »

Great thread folks, this is what keeps me coming back.    

You're a class act x2000.  Best of luck to you.  Keep us up-to-date!  

Oh, and though I agree that a Church band is not going to give you much of the experience that a true gigging band can give, it can still provide a wealth of experience and be a lot of fun too!  That's been my primary gig for many years and I love it.  

I'll second you on this.  For several years I was part of a band that "headlined regularly in our practice room" (like Tony said), and I didn't see much benefit to that (although I'm sure there were some).  But for the last ten years I've been the primary drummer for our praise band at church, and I'll tell you, my timekeeping skills have improved a hundredfold compared to the fifteen years before that.  Also the "comfort factor" of playing in front of people improves over time.  Regular playing has many benefits.
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« Reply #22 on: April 27, 2005, 01:31 PM »

If I can add anything it would be to make sure that you PLAY WITH OTHER MUSICIANS.  I don't care if they're good or not, music is like a language--you communicate!  What happens when you're talking to someone in a real life situation and they're not very articulate when speaking?  You have to learn how to communicate in other ways.  Having said that, I find that when I'm practicing by myself I'm pretty stagnant and not very *good*  However, when I'm playing with other musicians...WOW!!!  Since I get to "communicate" with other musicians, the dialogue never gets boring like it does when I play alone...  Something that's really funny is that I've never really liked any drummer, meaning I never tried to replicate anyone.  I always had a natural talent when it came to drums and thus from the get-go I wanted to be my own type of drummer.  What makes this ironic is that once I started getting into drums, THAT'S when I wanted to be like other drummers.  I kinda worked at things backwards all my life, and now after 11 years I kinda like where I'm at, but only when I'm playing with someone else... I hate practicing alone, it's boring.  I also love to perform in front of people!  Nothing beats the look on people's faces when they're into the music.  
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« Reply #23 on: April 27, 2005, 06:53 PM »

Xdrummer 2000,first of all,if you dont have a really good drum teacher,get one.They can show you ways to improve in any aspect of your drumming.As far as speed is concerned,it comes in time,with proper technique,like Moeller,Stone, you can have races with the metronome.Dont ever get discouraged,I know from my own experience this is easier said than done,but really try.I have been playing for 20 + years and I still get the ,"I`ll never be good enough"feeling whenever I watch a clip of Buddy Rich.Portnoy is setting the bar way too high this early in the game!Give yourself time,most importantly give yourself a break! I will repeat what others have already said but it bears repeating,play with as many people as you can!Even if its just you and a bass player.You will make breakthroughs just jamming,I think the reason for this is because you just flow with the music,caught in the moment,not trying too hard like you would be by yourself practicing and drilling yourself.  If nothing else,have fun,try playing open handed,substitute what you would normally play with something else,try not to get stuck in a routine.Keep a loose grip,Drumodad
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« Reply #24 on: April 28, 2005, 06:50 PM »

Drum4JC, just wondering, what is a class act?

I do, as I have said many times before, have a teacher, and she has been teaching me for 3.5 years(as long as I have been playing).

Also, today I played with my church band in front of my whole high school, and I barely got nervous at all! It truly DOES help to play in front of people in a church band. I also get complements on my playing. Lots of them.  Smiley
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« Reply #25 on: April 28, 2005, 07:49 PM »

Drum4JC, just wondering, what is a class act?

I'm not him—but he's saying you have class.  
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« Reply #26 on: April 29, 2005, 07:55 AM »

Yeah, I second (third?) the idea of playing with as many people as possible.  Some of my most valusble learning experiences have been playing with bands or players who I won't gig with again!  But it was still a valuable lesson.

Also, a bit off topic but I've always told my shred monster friends that while it is really cool that they can cop all the Dream The-a-ter (thanks Felix Wink) licks, what I find most impressive is the fact that Portnoy or Peart, etc. actually sat down and created these parts.  Anyone can reproduce them, with a bit of practice, but the talent is in the creation of some monster in context to a song and making it work.
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« Reply #27 on: April 29, 2005, 09:05 AM »


I do, as I have said many times before, have a teacher, and she has been teaching me for 3.5 years(as long as I have been playing).

OK, that is cool,  but I think one may ask what goals you and your teacher are working toward.  If the scope of your development exists only to the extent of recreating Mike Portnoy's parts or entering a Guitar Center contest then maybe you and she should sit down and redefine your goals.

If you want to go on to play in college or somehow make drumming your livelihood (as you've expressed in previous posts) you'll need to have a bit more versatility to your background.

It is great that you are getting compliments on your playing now, you are obviously doing something right, I think it is wise to prepare so when you get to the next level those compliments keep coming.



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« Reply #28 on: April 29, 2005, 12:50 PM »

Another thing -
If you ever get to the level Portnoy is at now, you'll still be discouraged because he'll have improved a lot as well, and you'll still be blown away by the stuff he plays.

I guess the point of this post is to reiterate the idea of concentrating on your achievemetns, without necessarily comparing yourself to the pros all the time.
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« Reply #29 on: April 29, 2005, 07:15 PM »

It's a good thing to learn from other drummers and to compare yourself with them.  We all do!  But I would suggest a number of drummers, not just one.  

There is a well known drummer in the UK who does a passable impersonation of Buddy Rich, even down to the facial expressions.  I think that is sort of sad because he is not being himself and will only ever be a copy.
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« Reply #30 on: April 29, 2005, 07:32 PM »

Another thing -
If you ever get to the level Portnoy is at now...

Will I ever get to that level? I sure do hope so.

Also, I am going to also start working on some Led Zeppelin. I learned one of their songs in one day, and am planning to learn more. My teacher brought over a tape with Dazed and Confused on it. Now THAT is some complex drumming right there.
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« Reply #31 on: April 29, 2005, 07:46 PM »


Also, I am going to also start working on some Led Zeppelin. I learned one of their songs in one day, and am planning to learn more. My teacher brought over a tape with Dazed and Confused on it. Now THAT is some complex drumming right there.

You might enjoy a little Zepplin ditty called "Good Times, Bad Times".  "Moby Dick" may interest you as well.
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« Reply #32 on: April 30, 2005, 05:51 AM »

There are so many good ones:

Love that "In my time of dying" myself- good ol' "Black Dog", "Kashmir", "When the Levee Breaks", "Rock 'n Roll"

When I hear that stuff now, as good as a drummer I am- I'm totally humbled by  John Bonham's genius and talent.
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« Reply #33 on: April 30, 2005, 11:45 AM »


...... the kind of guy who is probably going to end up being blazing fast and superchops heavy, into a very technically precise style ..... these guys headline their basement/bedroom/practice space nightly.  No one knows who they are or how "good" they are because they have isolated themselves musically.

Tony,

I going to apologise in advance for picking on your statements, it is just a good starting point for some ideas of mine and what I have to say is not a reflection on you or your playing, which I have never heard.

In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with working on chops.

A lot of guys have not spent time on their chops, do not know the rudiments, but cruize by on a good beat and a smile. This is fine 90% of the time, all a guy needs is a good pocket and decent single stroke.

There are other guys that 90% of the time do there job playing a pocket in their blues/top 40/country/classic rock/old standards bands, but also have paid their dues in the wood shed. These guys you can usually spot by their command and presence  ... you just know they have something more under the hood.

I would never obsess on a guy like Mike Portnoy, learn all his fills etc, but it is good to conceptually know where he is coming from.

Same goes with Gene, Buddy, Mitch, John, Bill, Billy, Tony, Danny, or whoever happens to be your drum hero for the week. All these guys come from the fundamentals, each applying them in their own way.

My advice for the young fellow that started this post: Do the homework, learn the fundamentals, and get out and play.

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« Reply #34 on: May 02, 2005, 10:59 AM »

Something else you may want to invest some time in is to go out to see local drummers.  Pick apart what they do good and what they do badly.  Learn from them.  Some of my best fills and grooves came from watching my peers.  I can't stress enough the ammount of great info I get from watching others play in a live situation - even to this day.  Once you've put some time in onstage, you'll be able to put yourself in thier shoes and understand the pressure they're under in a live situation.  Take your learning seriously, take it slow, and have a lot of fun doing it.
This is the most fun I could ever have, and I can still say that after almost 30 years of playing!  
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« Reply #35 on: May 03, 2005, 08:53 AM »

Tony,

I going to apologise in advance for picking on your statements, it is just a good starting point for some ideas of mine and what I have to say is not a reflection on you or your playing, which I have never heard.

In my opinion, there is nothing wrong with working on chops.

No problem, I'm no super ogre or anything.  I certainly didn't mean to sound as if I am one of those "chops are bad" guys, my favorite drummers are Neil Peart and Billy Cobham!  I just try to emphasize to younger players that chops and speed are not the end all measurment of drumming talent.  But I went through a period in my teens through my mid 20's where I wanted to be a combination of Neil Peart and Mike Portnoy!!!!  I played in a fantastic prog rock band and everything.  But as I got older and expanded my line of thinking, I realized how beautiful a jazz ride pattern could be and I began to notice the subtle nuances of different drummers, etc.  I believe its a bit of a maturing process all musicians go through on some level.  But read my thoughts on the "less is more" thread from a few months ago, you may be surprised at how I feel about chops heavy music Smiley
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« Reply #36 on: May 03, 2005, 09:19 AM »

I believe its a bit of a maturing process all musicians go through on some level.

I totally agree, it is kind of like cars & motorcycles, when I was in my 20s I wanted the fastest rice rocket out there and couldn't see why all those "old guys" just liked their cruisers. Now that I'm up near "old guy" territory myself I find less of a need to risk winding up in a ditch and find much more pleasure in the touring aspect of things.

As far as chops,  I like a good fireworks display once in a while. When used in the right context as Dave Weckl typically does, it is great.  What a lot of drummers fail to recognize however, is that there is a lot more to him than only his chops. He, Gadd, Cobham, Simon Phillips and guys of that ilk are full dimensional players.

The problem I see today is that too many drummer put so much emphasis on the chops part of it that the other, meat & potatos side of their playing doesn't develop.

To tie this back into the original topic, I would say that playing with other musicians in a live or even rehearsal setting did far more for my chops than sitting around with a practice pad ever did.


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