I can't think of any recording sessions I could afford to frighten myself on.
Generally, if you can't play to the click, can't hear the click, or tighten up because you aren't comfortable with the click, you'll give the other people in the studio a bad impression, which can have dire effects on your career.
Yes, practice it at home if you want, but I've always used the method described by bholt.
You mute everything but the snare? That's not what you said below.
Get the click so you can hear it clearly. this should not be so loud as it deafens you, or spills into the drum mics. Limit the amount of drums in the cans, and have a comfortable level of the other instruments, vocals etc. If you don't need anything, have it taken out.
I don't think we're that far apart on this, Chris. It's probably my fault for not being clear. I said, "I recommend keeping the click as low in the mix as you can stand and still feel emotionally comfortable about it being there." I was simply cautioning against having too much click and not being able to hear the music that's going on around you, much like you are. I suggested that it be low enough to blend in "even if it is prominent in the mix." In other words, get it so you can hear it, and have a "comfortable level of other instruments".
Ironically, the "frightening" part, for some who are inexperienced with a click, is actually letting go of their tensions about playing to a click and the need to have it wailing away as loud as possible for fear of losing it. I know, because I experienced this myself. If you don't trust yourself, you will, as you say, give a bad impression.
As to burying the click, I wasn't speaking of having it so low that it can't be heard clearly. But, when wearing open cans, a loud snare crack (we know you love rimshots) tends to partially, if not totally, block out a click set at a reasonable volume. Even
with IEMs (which I use for click track several times a week) that's been my experience - especially if I have snare in the monitor as you and bholt suggest. When I do practice this, I admittedly have the click lower than I would in a real-life situation.
I hope that's better.
