Let me preface by saying that I feel that we are all students when it comes to this. No matter how long you've been playing, no matter how good your
internal clock may be .... we'll be spending the rest of our lives developing and perfecting our own personal timing keeping talents.
Although James asked for techniques
besides working with a metronome, I wanted to briefly mention that I do spend a good deal of time with the metronome. If I'm working on warming up, hand exercises, rudiments, etc., I always try to have the metronome going. My attitude with this is that my mind and body get so accustomed to working with it, playing with it in all things that I do, that when I
really with a group/band ... that same strong sense of time will come out in my playing.
I also spend a good amount of time playing along with recorded music. Playing with the radio or finding albums that have great grooves is a FANTASTIC way to develop your pocket. Unfortunately however, the other musicians will not follow you ... you are still following them. But if you can find the pocket of each tune, lay it down ... you will get the sense that the album has come alive and that everyone IS playing to your groove.
With all that said, I think the
biggest technique to "developing that immovable sense of time" is the
mind. Having a
leadership attitude and
taking control is the first step, and really the key ingredient to laying down a solid pocket. You can spend every hour of every day practicing with a metronome, but if you play (what I call)
limp wristed ... lacking authority in your playing ... then you will be influenced by your surroundings and time is going to move ... period. I feel that I can speak on this topic as this has been a problem of mine ... in the past hopefully!

I would be playing with good, solid time ... but when begin to question in my mind whether I was rushing. You know what happens ... I'd start to drag, thinking I was rushing ... when I wasn't at all. I was right on the whole time, but doubted myself and abilities. You can NOT do that!
The analogy I always use is what I call
Driving the Bus. The drummer is in the drivers seat, determining where how to take each turn in the music, setting the pace, signaling for what's about to come next, taking all the passengers with him. The drums lead whether you want to or not, in my opinion. What other instrument in the band plays all the subdivisions? In most cases ... no one but the drummer. So by default, the drums determine the feel, phrasing and timing of the music. I could go on and on with my metaphors ... but I'm sure you get the point.
One of my favorite quotes; saw it on a bumper sticker several decades ago:
[shadow=pink,left,100]Lead, follow, or get the hell out of the way![/shadow][/size]
Every rhythm section player should tattoo that phrase on their arm! LOL Or perhaps on the foreheads so everyone in the band could see!
You've GOT to have
confidence when you play ... even if you are nervous as hell.
Back in 1988, I had the pleasure of working with Sam Moore (Sam & Dave) at the R&B Foundation Concert in Austin, TX. I had rehearsed with Sam the day before in which we worked up one set for the concert. I was excited and nervous all at the same time, not just because of getting to work with Sam, but because Bonnie Raitt and Stevie Ray Vaughn were on the same concert. At the gig, Bonnie comes out and sits in for a tune, and then Stevie Ray comes on and sits in on a tune. Oh my lord I was nervous. I was fighting the instinct to follow this GIANTS in the music industry, but I was able to keep my cool and just lead the band. I think what saved me was that my stage monitor was so bad, I couldn't hear well enough to follow anyone else, so I just dug in my heels and played.
This brings up my final point. For many years, when I was first starting to play professionally, I wanted to make the music feel good ... so I would do what I call
playing ensemble. What I mean by this is that I would move around to fit with what was going on around me. The band would be
together and the music would sound good ... but there was no
real pocket. I can remember the EXACT place in time when I learned what was going on ... a little light bulb went off in my head ... and it was on a GIG!!!

Sorry to say that it happened the way it did ... but thank God it happened and I learned what it meant to play in the pocket. To make a long story short, it was a jazz gig (wedding band) and the trumpet and saxophonists where instructors at the graduate school I was attending at (I was a Teaching Assistant there). They turned around to me and said "hey man, go for it ... push it ahead." I thought to myself, what are you talking about. On a break, they came up to me and explained that when they were
laying back that I was going with them, rather than keeping the time where it was at. WOW!!!! For so many years I was being forced to follow someone else. They would try and tell me where they wanted the time to be, and would dictate it by HOW THEY PLAYED. This is so, so very bad. Not only did it damage my confidence, but I developed a habit of following (playing ensemble) rather than leading! That was 15 years ago, and I've never been the same sense.
Now I take an authoritative role in my playing. It doesn't mean I play loud or strong. It means that I
say what I mean and mean what I say! No more playing
mousey as my instructor called it ... back when I was an incoming freshman music major.
When I play now, I drive that groove right up the rest of the band's backside. Where I put the time & tempo is were it is. You follow me. If I rush or drag ... that's not the point; I'm leading this group ... you follow me. I'm always right no matter what.
This is the attitude (which sounds very arrogant) that you've GOT to have musically. You still need to be a nice person ... LOL ... but when it comes to playing, you need to have the
eye of the tiger.
