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I know we've all probably discussed this before on different levels so please forgive me if this is redundant. I just wanted to get everyone else's perspective on the subject.  Maybe some of you go through this as well? I struggle with this question of controlling the odds all the time. It is the music business afterall and I often wonder how much of my future really relies on me or is left up to chance, luck or destiny to decide my fate. It just seems to me that there are so many things that need to be in place for opportunity to happen. Things beyond my control. At the end of the day, the only thing I feel I have any power over is my ability to prepare myself as best as I can by making all the right choices and decisions based around my goals of being a professional drummer. It's frustrating for me cause I'm a practical person by nature. I don't act upon things on a whim. I'm calculated and I study, research, ask questions and then make a choice. The only problem is, there are days that pass where I feel completely lost on the plot, like I'm hanging on to something that seems so out of reach. I hate feeling that way and I know that feelings can be fleeting, it's just that I'm getting older and I feel like I should be established already. My love for music has not changed. I love it as much as I ever have, it's just the financial risks and the amount of time involved that bother me. Of course though, those feelings pass too and I say to myself "yes, I want to keep trying because I don't want to look back with any regrets." Somedays, I think to myself that I should just go back to college and get a degree but, if I do I'm afraid I won't finish what I start. Music has been the most consistent thing in my life since I was little. In one way, I feel fortunate that I have a passion for something and work at it cause it's bizarre for me to think of myself not playing anymore with the goal of being a full-time pro musician but, the age thing is creeping into the equation and somewhere at some point I have to face the facts and know when to bow out gracefully. Maybe that's just a fleeting thought too though... Anyway, I'm not trying to put out a negative vibe to everyone. I realize that we have enough naysayers in the world as it is.....just have some things on the brain...thanks for reading. 
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« Reply #1 on: January 14, 2003, 10:53 AM » |
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i hear ya and have been in the same boat myself. i just remember why i play music. because its what i love, what i do. do i want to make a living at it? sure, but thats secondary in the grand scheme of things. first priority is to simply be making music. as long as im doing that, thats really all there is to it. circumstances be damned. we all have to reevaluate our priorities as we age because as we age we change. our personalities change, our lives change, our hairline changes  and all you can do is deal with those changes as they come by reevaluating and keeping your hair short.
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« Reply #2 on: January 14, 2003, 11:11 AM » |
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we all have to reevaluate our priorities as we age because as we age we change. our personalities change, our lives change, our hairline changes and all you can do is deal with those changes as they come by reevaluating and keeping your hair short. I hear you on that. I'm constantly assessing where I am and where I want to be in the future. Speaking of hairlines - my fiancee was just kiddin me about the ole' hair line starting to recede(spelling?) last week ha! ha!. 
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« Reply #3 on: January 14, 2003, 11:16 AM » |
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Music picks you, you don't pick it.
Worry less, pray more. You can pick the diety.
You might get lucky but you have to keep plugging and playing and networking. Measure the little successes and don't set unrealistic goals. It's a priviledge and luxury to play music, be glad you can play at all. Not everyone can. Don't buy into the mtv hype. Don't let music make you crazy, keep it fun and light but remember you usually give more than you get back. Measure your rewards beyond monetary gain.
Don't be so controlling, just go where it feels right to you.
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« Reply #4 on: January 14, 2003, 01:58 PM » |
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Although I am only familiar with my own small world of music - and certainly not with the way the rock/pop world operates - I do not think you ever control the odds.
All you can do is to try your best to prepare yourself for what you want to do so that IF the opportunity comes along you have got the best preparation to take it.
I would have played music anyway and things were much easier when I started. The "kitchen department" were not regarded as proper musicians and hence there were not that many people interested. I was fortunate on two grounds: I had two good teachers so that when an opportunity came I was able to meet it but I had no control over the opportunity.
I was in a country where I did not even speak the language at that time and no one could have predicted such an opportunity coming along. That was pure and simple "luck" and again not that many wanted to do orchestral work: I understand that 48 bars rest, two notes on the triangle and 102 bars rest is not everyone's idea of music.
Although I was a professional from a young age, I almost had the same problems as Critter29 because all I really wanted to do was play the timpani and it took me a very long time to get that chair.
I profoundly hope that you have the luck that you need and if I had three wishes one of them would be that all musicians were able to play for a living if they wish to do so.
Kind regards, Alan M. Watkins
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« Reply #5 on: January 14, 2003, 02:26 PM » |
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Controlling the odds - an interesting concept. I can understand why this concerns you. I too am an analytic kind of guy, wanting to use my intellect and sense to help me succeed. It seems like there should be SOME way to kind of figure out this whole business, so that it's not so random and luck-based... First, the bad news. Drummers are, by nature, sidemen. We accompany somebody else. We are typically employees of somebody else. Even if we are "equal" members of a band, we are only truly equal if we are among the band's primary songwriters. Other than that, we are at the whim of our bandleaders and/or the availabilty of work for accompanists who play our instrument. That is NOT control. That is one of the biggest errors I made in preparing myself for my career. I just worried about being a good drummer, ready for any musical situation. But I based this on the assumption that if I was good enough, I would always find the kind of opportunities I wanted. And I've been lucky enough to land a few nice gigs. BUT - the gigs had to become available first, and I could do nothing to influence that fact (despite my occasional temptations to try to break Max Weinberg's arm...  ) Here are my suggestions - not all of which may be possible for you - based on boatloads of hindsight: 1) Study at least SOME business and law courses. 2) Study the music BUSINESS. 3) Master the Internet - learning to design web sites, post music, etc. 4) Write songs, sing, or do both. 5) Lead a band or project. 6) Look at the people who in your eyes have done the best job of controlling their careers. Study them. Read interviews with them. Learn how deeply they've sunken their claws into the BUSINESS of music. Here are a few examples: Madonna Jon Bon Jovi P Diddy (I can't stand him, but can't argue with his success) John Mellencamp Frank Zappa (his autobiography is an eye-opener about the music biz - he basically considered himself a failure, and not out of false modesty) Kenny Rogers (one SMART mofo - wrote a great book about the biz back in the 70's, which I think is out of print) Pick others as you see fit - not basing your choice on how successful they are, but on how much CONTROL of their success you think they have. 7) Oh, and in the meantime, develop near-virtuosic skill at your instrument. That helps, too. But it's at the bottom of this list for a reason. Without the previous steps, this last one is NO guarantee of success.
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« Reply #6 on: January 14, 2003, 04:22 PM » |
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Thanks a million everyone for the advice and "real life" ancedotes. Invaluable would be the key word here.  Mr.A - the first line on your list was a happy coincidence for me. I've actually been contemplating that very thought. Studying Law....  I love biographies too! Sting and Paul McCartney's books are among some of my favorite reads and I have boatloads of music business books that pretty much run the gamut, written from lawyers, producers, and PR consultants. Now, if I can just find a practical way to use the knowledge I've learned from everyone here on the cafe and elsewhere.
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« Reply #7 on: January 14, 2003, 05:57 PM » |
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Mr Acrolite: only stupid old orchestral chap but in my case only Number Seven applies.
I didn't want to do business management or anything else: I wanted to do orchestral percussion and the route to do that was only Number Seven.
Maybe it was sardonic? A joke l don't understand?
Kind regards, Alan M. Watkins
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« Reply #8 on: January 14, 2003, 06:11 PM » |
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And PS: in my small world I am not a "sideman" in Bolero......I am not a side man on timpani in Brahms Piano Concerto No 1 (or not for 14 minutes anyway); I am not a sideman tambourine in Dvorak: Carnival; I'm not a sideman in the Lizst duo between piano and triangle; I don't THINK I am a sideman in Siegfried's funeral march (Wagner).........and I might not be a sideman when the principal timpani in Wagner: Gotterdammerung has his great timpani solo as the Gods cross the bridge to Valhallah?
I MIGHT be a sideman.....could it be that I just don't realise that?
Or was it a joke?
Kind regards, Alan M. Watkins
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« Reply #9 on: January 14, 2003, 06:24 PM » |
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And PPS: of course I can't lay down a groove but I'd give anyone on here a bloody good shot in Carnival. Which I assume doesn't count for a lot? Clever post and all that, Mr Acrolite, but you disparage what WE do and I think that's wrong.
Kind regards, Alan M. Watkins (Just a "sideman")
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« Reply #10 on: January 14, 2003, 06:28 PM » |
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PPPS: I have Dalibor by Smetana coming up in April.......I must go off and study a song sometime.
Kind regards, Alan M. Watkins
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« Reply #11 on: January 14, 2003, 06:45 PM » |
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well, in the world of popular music, numbers 1-6 on Mr. A's list will put you in a @$%# fine position to make a succesfull career in the music biz, while #7 alone may or may not do this. this is the bottom line. if you want to make it, drum virtuosity alone is not going to cut it in this day and age. in classical and jazz maybe. just decide where your heart really is and do whatever you have to do. (unfortunately my heart is in a dozen or so places in the music world, so little chance for me to make a real career in music).
and just for the record, a good number of drummers have made fine careers for themselves with far from virtuosic skill. Ringo and Chris Frantz from Talking Heads are the two that come immediately to my mind. Nothing wrong with this. they lay down a good beat, and there's plenty of room for these kinds of players in music.
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« Reply #12 on: January 14, 2003, 07:48 PM » |
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I am not in the world of popular music and I don't like being shat on for NOT being in it.
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« Reply #13 on: January 14, 2003, 09:00 PM » |
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And PPS: of course I can't lay down a groove but I'd give anyone on here a bloody good shot in Carnival. Which I assume doesn't count for a lot? Clever post and all that, Mr Acrolite, but you disparage what WE do and I think that's wrong.
How have I disparaged you (or whoever "WE" is)? What are you talking about?
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« Reply #14 on: January 14, 2003, 10:10 PM » |
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Alan ... you are in a minority here at the Cafe. You have to realize that the majority of the people here play drumset. Don't take things so personal; no one is disparaging you.
You are taking the topics and applying them to where you are at in your music experience ... and that's great. But don't be surprised if many people don't understand a thing you are talking about. That doesn't mean we can't learn and grow ... but just don't be surprised if others to fully get it.
I personally think all of Mister Acrolite's points apply to ALL of music ... regardless of genre. If you want to be well-round and diverse ... the more you know and understand will only help you ... and make you a more of an asset than the next guy.
The way to beat the odds is to do your part, everything you can, so that the only thing working against you is luck/fate/God ... depending on your life perspective.
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« Reply #15 on: January 14, 2003, 10:43 PM » |
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I think, and I guess that almost all of the people here would feel the same way, that playing percussion/drumset well in any capacity is an accomplishment deserving praise. Whether its laying down a mozambique on drumset or playing the timp parts in a Janacek, both require some serious skills. whether or not we are considered sidemen is not an issue. we know how important the drums are even though the average audience member may consider us sidemen.
as for comparing pop/rock/jazz to classical, I don't think anyone here is passing judgement on this. I think there is a science to both fields. and yes, being well rounded is very important in any field. if you are a timpani player, but can't play crash cymbals or tambourine well, you're gonna have trouble making a career in classical music. Likewise, if you're a drumset player but don't know anything about writing songs or leading a band, or don't know anything about the business side of music, you're gonna have a hard time making a career in rock music. I don't see any reason to value one field, one set of skills, over the other.
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« Reply #16 on: January 15, 2003, 07:34 AM » |
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One word.
YANNI
Ok that was my one word.
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« Reply #17 on: January 15, 2003, 09:20 AM » |
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And PS: in my small world I am not a "sideman" in Bolero......I am not a side man on timpani in Brahms Piano Concerto No 1 (or not for 14 minutes anyway); I am not a sideman tambourine in Dvorak: Carnival; I'm not a sideman in the Lizst duo between piano and triangle; I don't THINK I am a sideman in Siegfried's funeral march (Wagner).........and I might not be a sideman when the principal timpani in Wagner: Gotterdammerung has his great timpani solo as the Gods cross the bridge to Valhallah?
I MIGHT be a sideman.....could it be that I just don't realise that?
Or was it a joke?
You're not a sideman? Interesting. - When the orchestra enters the stage, do you make a separate entrance, like the concertmaster, the conductor, and any guest soloists?
- Do you book the orchestra's engagements?
- Do you choose the musical selections for each concert?
- Do you play what YOU want to play, or do you have to play specific parts written by somebody else?
- In the printed programs for your performances, is your name prominently featured? Or is the percussion section listed rather late in the program, like the Prague Symphony Orchestra does on this list of its personnel?
Guess what? You're a sideman. Bernstein isn't. Maezel isn't. Janos Starker isnt. Evelyn Glennie isn't. But you are. And guess what else? THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH THAT. Sideman is NOT a disparaging term. It simply means you are an accompanist, a member of a team, but not its leader. This is NO reflection on one's skill. Buddy Rich was a sideman for years. Vic Firth was a sideman. Vinnie Colaiuta is a sideman 90% of the time. It can take enormous skill. Like I said, a sideman is an accompanist. I take great pride in being a competent and versatile accompanist - I'd hope you do, too. The only potentially bad thing about being a sideman is that you often do not have a lot of control over the decisions and destiny of whatever musical organization you're a part of. And this thread is about control. So I posted some suggestions. Maybe you don't need to know anything other than how to play timpani. The orchestral world is anomalous in that once you get a gig, you've basically got that gig for life. A lot of young orchestral players HATE that fact, as they watch older players who are past their prime doggedly holding on to positions that some younger players might be better qualified for. (This is NOT a personal attack, nor a sweeping generalization. But I'm sure you'll admit that there are some old fogeys in some of the major orchestras who are ready to be put out to pasture.) Throughout the rest of the music business, there are no permanent jobs like that. So it may be hard for you to be objective about what it's like for a young drumset player trying to succeed in the music business, when you've had YOUR gig for 40 years. So relax. Don't take umbrage at my remarks. And PLEASE try to stay on topic. Telling us how well you play certain timpani parts doesn't really help a young drummer control his odds of success in the music business, does it? With that in mind, I just checked at www.register.com, and it seems that the following Web addresses are currently available: www.timpanicafe.comwww.alanwatkinsuk.comwww.allaboutalan.comJust a thought...
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« Reply #18 on: January 15, 2003, 09:49 AM » |
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ROFL!!! 
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« Reply #19 on: January 15, 2003, 10:30 AM » |
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We just began a big promo campaign this week for our band and another fusion artist/band here in town. I'll let you know how it goes but it basically boils down to:
I hope I get some time in to practice before the gig!
It is all BS, business, marketing, gladhanding, fast talking for just 3 hours of music.
Amazing this biz. I'll let you all know how it goes.
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