I usually just drink a fifth of JD beforehand, then everything sounds blurred together and quieter. And even if it is too loud, I don't really mind if my ears start bleeding.

Acutally, I use a pair of flesh-colored earplugs I found at Osco Drug. I trimmed the outer part down so they are a little more hidden from onstage, but still retain their decibal rating (as far as I can tell, anyway). Also, I've been curious about the earplugs that attenuate across all frequencies, although mine don't really emphasize the low ends. Just always trying to find the "perfect" earplug.