When I was 13 or so, I was into my little world of how great I was. If anybody tried to change me, I'd tell them that I'm not ever changing for anyone. Who needs artistic growth? I'm rockin' out, dude... end of story.
I probably should just let this die, but here goes...
It seems like this thread has not only derailed, the cars have bounced off in several different directions simultaneously. We're getting into drumming on OUR projects, drumming on OTHER PEOPLE'S projects, dealing with engineers who know what they're doing, dealing with engineers who DON'T know what they're doing, trying new things in the studio, trying new things in life in general...and more than once, I get the impression that we've ended up with people responding to one person's post on one topic, with comments on another topic.
FWIW, I think I phrased my original entry poorly - and it kind of bothers me that my "move your ride cymbal a foot" has become the lightning rod and reference point for this thread. I'm not bothered that it has been used, but rather because it has kind of taken on a life of its own. It made me sound less cooperative than I would be - or, would like to think I'd be - in that sort of situation.
The thing that "raised my eyebrows" - and please remember, my limited recording studio experience has been in non-drumset capacities, so I'm asking and not opining when I present this - was the idea that an engineer would just capricously walk in and say, "Your cymbals (toms, snare drum, cowbell, slide whistle, ash tray, bottle of pop, inspirational picture of Uma Thurman, whatever) have to move, 'cause that's how I have to have the drums set up when I record." That's why I asked if any other musicians are subject to this sort of treatment, or if it was unique to drummers. I should have also asked if this was an accurate impression based on accounts I've heard.
Maybe it's just sensitivity to dealing with too many "it's just drums" or "it's just a drummer" sorts of mindsets, I don't know. Hearing reports from those here who are more versed in studio work than I am, stating that just about any instrumentalist (or singer) can be asked to compromise/adjust/adapt his work or tools, is comforting. It lets me know that these sorts of issues are just "the nature of the beast" when it comes to functioning in a recording studio, answering my original (poorly-worded) question.