Through reading many of your posts, it's obvious that you're passionate about drums and music. That, to me, is the most important thing. If you and the guitarist are a solid unit, maybe it is time for the two of you to move on. You WILL find a bassist and vocalist eventually. An ongoing struggle between the singer and guitarist will just keep eating away at everyone. If you can deal, just keep trying to find a bass player. If not, there sure are a lot of Musicians Wanted and Musicians Available ads on the net.......
Keep your chin up
