You can soak it over night and as long as 24 hours. You want the skin to be soft and pliable so you can work with it. Damage can occur while working with the skin while it's soft, so take care.
The time needed to soak depends on the thickness of the skin as well as the type of skin (eg. calf, goat, etc.).
Hope this helps.
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