The Rebound Game
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... or wok that hat
Grow-up. You can't always get what you want in life. A good marriage is a hell of a lot more important than a stinkin' cymbal or snare drum!
Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo way! I'd leave anyone for drums.
So I guess I know what you'd say if Robert DeNiro approached you and said ,"A million dollars...For one night with your drums."
Shut up bit*h
I tell her the truth. The only things that I have bought with out her knowing it, is when I get an unexpected bonus check from work. Eventually, I still tell her. Nutty
I notice there's the word "eventually" in that last sentence. I hear you! Generally, I wait a few days or weeks or however long it takes for my girlfriend (soon to be fiance) to buy some luxury item for herself. I ooh and aah over it (no matter what it is) and then say, "And have you seen the cymbal I just got?"It softens the blow....
She never complained about music equipment but one time she did pitch a fit over an airplane I bought. So I just looked her right in the eyes and said "you crazy old woman, how would you like it if I knocked all your teeth out? Airplanes are what makes us money you goofy, complaining ole witch" Of course I was saying all this to myself because if she heard me I would have been the one with no teeth. It always pays to tell the truth because "the truth will set you free" of course sometimes it hurts a little.
In my arsenal of equipment, I have bought two items from bonus checks that I told her about after the fact. My 24in 2002 Ride and the Paiste 24in Cymbal case to carry it. That is it. She knew about everything else before I spent the money. Everyones relationship is different. I am one of these people that wears everything on my sleeve so hiding things from the one I Love is not my nature. I couldn't tell a lie and get away with it. That is just me. Nutty
I mean, how do you dictate who pays what bills with separate accounts?